Are you ready to ‘play a bigger game?’  If you’re ready to play then you’re ready to be honest with yourself; you’re ready for your values, beliefs and actions to be congruent.

As boomer women we are driven by so many old beliefs.  Do you sometimes wonder, “Why did I do that?”  We spend hours beating ourselves up because this doesn’t feel good and we KNOW that we are not being honest.  Now is the time to stop the beating and start putting the pieces together.  The pieces are much like a puzzle and each fits snugly in the right place.

j0439356Think of a time when you put a puzzle together.  I’ll bet you started with the outside pieces first!  You moved from outside in.  You will start the exact same way; your outside is your behavior.  Your behavior is driven by your belief system.  Examine your beliefs and values to determine if they support who you are now.  Whenever your beliefs and behaviors are incongruent; you know you’re not being honest.

Day 5  Practice honesty in ALL situations; even when it doesn’t feel good!